Showing posts with label thoughts. Show all posts
Showing posts with label thoughts. Show all posts
Tuesday, November 8, 2016
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Living to be Known: Contcept, Content, Context - FourWord Monday #41
Understanding Communication, messages, ideas better.
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Monday, October 3, 2016
Living to be Known: Explanations Are NOT Answers... FourWord Monday #40
No Unnecessary Chatter Please.
Tuesday, September 27, 2016
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Maybe, everybody feels the same.
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Monday, September 19, 2016
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Monday, August 22, 2016
Living to be Known: Simplify It - FourWord Monday #34
Take some time to make it easy on yourself...
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Monday, August 1, 2016
Living to be Known: The Vast World of Romantic Relationships - FourWordM...
What's the deal with Romantic Relationships? We/I need Some Help!
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Thursday, July 14, 2016
How Are Your Relationships? Look Deeper (Follow-Up Post)
When I ask: How are your relationships; who or what do you think of?
Okay, google search relationship and you'll find: "the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected." (google, lol)
So listen, whether you believe it or not, your relationships have had more impact on your life than anything else in this world. From the moment you were birthed and breathed that good ole Oxygen, the people, community, region and your place in this world of relations have influenced, shaped and helped you, yes you to become you. Whether you like it or not.
Now that we have the generic out of the way. Let's go deeper.
Let's talk about Living to be Known.
BELIEF: What is the basis of your relationships and what do they/it mean to you?
i.e. - My family is most important/ I can't live without my phone/ I don't trust men etc. etc.
What you believe about someone or something comes from experience and is personally catered by you for your benefit according to your logic. Might be true, might not be, but you believe it. And with that you place them/it in a relational category. The things you like, dislike, and ignore all bear their weight and have their affects. I know I don't always see them, sometimes I don't want to, sometimes I over-think it.
KNOWLEDGE: How much do you know them/it and how well do they/it know you? How much time has been invested?
i.e. - I talk to _ everyday/I know my friend like i know myself/I don't like to talk about my personal life etc. etc.
Why are some relationships closer than others? Do know or at least feel like you know the people closer to you better than others? Or maybe that's the reason some relationships are strained. We know and have experienced too much or enough that once it informs our belief, or lack of, we cannot take back what we know.
"People only trust two things: What they know and what they don't know." - Valet
PRACTICE: What does any given relationship do for you? How do they make you feel? What do you do for them?
i.e. - They're honest/ I feel secure around them or it/ they're funny/ They're not dependable/ They Gossip etc. etc.
We like to be around people we share similarities with. The myth that opposites attract more so has to do with what you have in common rather than what you don't. The Value that you believe or know someone brings, or doesn't, and how you see them/it will directly affect your actions around or towards them. For many perception is reality, but what is done cannot be undone, only understood.
RELATIONSHIP: Where/what is your place in my life? what/where is my place in your life?
i.e. - He's more than a friend, he's my brother/ She's like my second mom/ I just say "hi" in passing/ we play sport once a week etc. etc.
The World is becoming a more diverse place everyday. From the beloved royal to the orphaned beggar we've all been given a label and a place. Yet and still we chose. We have given labels to each other according to who we are or have become to one another. Learning to manage our relationships is one of the most important things we can do. Who we spend our time with and the influence that comes with it should be as important to us as our own lives. Your bartender, coach, parent, friend, bus drives and food server all are someone to us.
COMMUNICATION: How you speak, how you act, when you do it, how you do it, how well we listen. These things all mean something to someone else. This is probably the hardest for people.
i.e. - I don't like they're tone/ I feel uncomfortable around ?/ You talk too fast/ why won't you look me in the eye etc. etc.
Communication is two sided. One must send and the other receive. Even if the messages aren't clear. We learn to communicate from what we see, hear and other surrounding factors. We sometimes pick -up habits, phrases, and accents without recognizing it. How we express joy, anger, frustration, attraction, and how we deal with different issues in life are all connected to our relationships and how we communicate in them.
FINANCE: How do you spend? How do you save? Do you invest? Who have you learned from? Does your money work for you or do you work for it?
i.e. - Poor people always.../ Rich people are like.../ You don't look like you have money etc. etc.
How much money you have, what you do with it, credit, assets, risk, debt, earnings, expenses, wages, taxes etc. etc.
Why don't we often see the wealthy visiting areas of those in poverty? Why do those with different opportunity and resources act, speak and understand the things of life differently? It's because finances make a difference. Understanding money and how it works in the world we live in is important. What decisions do good money managers make versus bad money managers? Why is it important to know what 1 million is worth? Why is it important to understand monetary value, what it does to the brain and the affects that it can have on you and those around you? Why isn't the neighborhood park clean? Why are there no grocery stores where you live?
Essentially, Relationships are important. And you have relationships with things and people you probably have not recognized you do. The truth is that if it is connected to you or you to it, that it's a relationship.
I just want you to love them. Value them. See them be all that you hope and help you along the way as you help me. We're in this together. I love yall.
Let me know what you think.
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My Soundcloud
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Is it your family, friends or romantic partners?
Is it co-workers, clients, supporters or strangers(fans/followers)?
It it your pet(s)?
Your Technology?
Your Books?
Fear/Anxiety/Excitement/Thrill?
Or do you join the millions of people around the world who might secretly feel and softly say, "what relationships? I'm alone out here."
Well I have the GREATEST NEWS!
You!
You're just like me. Or is it that I'm just like you?
"Ha! What do you know about me?"... did I just read your mind?
Nope!
So since we have that out of the way, I have so much to say. But I'll try to keep it short.
First, I Love You. and Thank You for reading...
So listen, whether you believe it or not, your relationships have had more impact on your life than anything else in this world. From the moment you were birthed and breathed that good ole Oxygen, the people, community, region and your place in this world of relations have influenced, shaped and helped you, yes you to become you. Whether you like it or not.
Now that we have the generic out of the way. Let's go deeper.
Let's talk about Living to be Known.
BELIEF: What is the basis of your relationships and what do they/it mean to you?
i.e. - My family is most important/ I can't live without my phone/ I don't trust men etc. etc.
What you believe about someone or something comes from experience and is personally catered by you for your benefit according to your logic. Might be true, might not be, but you believe it. And with that you place them/it in a relational category. The things you like, dislike, and ignore all bear their weight and have their affects. I know I don't always see them, sometimes I don't want to, sometimes I over-think it.
KNOWLEDGE: How much do you know them/it and how well do they/it know you? How much time has been invested?
i.e. - I talk to _ everyday/I know my friend like i know myself/I don't like to talk about my personal life etc. etc.
Why are some relationships closer than others? Do know or at least feel like you know the people closer to you better than others? Or maybe that's the reason some relationships are strained. We know and have experienced too much or enough that once it informs our belief, or lack of, we cannot take back what we know.
"People only trust two things: What they know and what they don't know." - Valet
PRACTICE: What does any given relationship do for you? How do they make you feel? What do you do for them?
i.e. - They're honest/ I feel secure around them or it/ they're funny/ They're not dependable/ They Gossip etc. etc.
We like to be around people we share similarities with. The myth that opposites attract more so has to do with what you have in common rather than what you don't. The Value that you believe or know someone brings, or doesn't, and how you see them/it will directly affect your actions around or towards them. For many perception is reality, but what is done cannot be undone, only understood.
RELATIONSHIP: Where/what is your place in my life? what/where is my place in your life?
i.e. - He's more than a friend, he's my brother/ She's like my second mom/ I just say "hi" in passing/ we play sport once a week etc. etc.
The World is becoming a more diverse place everyday. From the beloved royal to the orphaned beggar we've all been given a label and a place. Yet and still we chose. We have given labels to each other according to who we are or have become to one another. Learning to manage our relationships is one of the most important things we can do. Who we spend our time with and the influence that comes with it should be as important to us as our own lives. Your bartender, coach, parent, friend, bus drives and food server all are someone to us.
COMMUNICATION: How you speak, how you act, when you do it, how you do it, how well we listen. These things all mean something to someone else. This is probably the hardest for people.
i.e. - I don't like they're tone/ I feel uncomfortable around ?/ You talk too fast/ why won't you look me in the eye etc. etc.
Communication is two sided. One must send and the other receive. Even if the messages aren't clear. We learn to communicate from what we see, hear and other surrounding factors. We sometimes pick -up habits, phrases, and accents without recognizing it. How we express joy, anger, frustration, attraction, and how we deal with different issues in life are all connected to our relationships and how we communicate in them.
FINANCE: How do you spend? How do you save? Do you invest? Who have you learned from? Does your money work for you or do you work for it?
i.e. - Poor people always.../ Rich people are like.../ You don't look like you have money etc. etc.
How much money you have, what you do with it, credit, assets, risk, debt, earnings, expenses, wages, taxes etc. etc.
Why don't we often see the wealthy visiting areas of those in poverty? Why do those with different opportunity and resources act, speak and understand the things of life differently? It's because finances make a difference. Understanding money and how it works in the world we live in is important. What decisions do good money managers make versus bad money managers? Why is it important to know what 1 million is worth? Why is it important to understand monetary value, what it does to the brain and the affects that it can have on you and those around you? Why isn't the neighborhood park clean? Why are there no grocery stores where you live?
Essentially, Relationships are important. And you have relationships with things and people you probably have not recognized you do. The truth is that if it is connected to you or you to it, that it's a relationship.
I just want you to love them. Value them. See them be all that you hope and help you along the way as you help me. We're in this together. I love yall.
Let me know what you think.
Visit me anywhere:
My Website
My Soundcloud
My Youtube
Monday, March 7, 2016
Living to be Known: Ask the Question - 4WORDS Monday 10
10 Weeks into this new year. Have you been Living to be Known?...Whats going on with you, huh?
Tuesday, February 23, 2016
Tuesday, February 16, 2016
Living to be Known: Mentality of Me, Against the World or A Part of the ...
A common phrase right. But does that really mean anything?
Monday, January 18, 2016
Living to be Known: Are You? 4WORDS Monday #3 (video)
We're all known for something, by someone, in some way. It's not always what we think. But if it could be, how?
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Wednesday, December 30, 2015
Monday, December 28, 2015
(Legacy Tribute)... A Look into Perspective
This is a song about remembrance. Because the things we remember are special to us. The people we remember are dear to us. The moments we remember are eternal to us. That's how I especially feel about my grandparents. Words can't express. If you know then you know, and if you do not know it's ok. I'm sure that you have gained in an area of life that I cannot relate. But I understand, and I can still touch your heart strings.
There are people in life who we encounter that just, "stay". They're the parents of our friends, our family, strangers that we talk to in line at the dollar store and the blatant honesty of children asking us to make sense of our loaded statements.
Life is good. The gift of Life brings us together to experience spectacular chemistry. It can come from anyone and can happen at any time. It will leave its mark. We will remember it, it becomes a legacy. Your Legacy, My Legacy, Our Legacy.
Live that way. That's "Living to be Known"
There are people in life who we encounter that just, "stay". They're the parents of our friends, our family, strangers that we talk to in line at the dollar store and the blatant honesty of children asking us to make sense of our loaded statements.
Life is good. The gift of Life brings us together to experience spectacular chemistry. It can come from anyone and can happen at any time. It will leave its mark. We will remember it, it becomes a legacy. Your Legacy, My Legacy, Our Legacy.
Live that way. That's "Living to be Known"
Wednesday, December 23, 2015
Tuesday, December 15, 2015
Thursday, March 20, 2014
Knowledge?
I think the best definition of "knowledge", that I have ever read from a dictionary would be: 'the sum of what is known'. Of course that 'sum' may vary, in all cases we are more or less knowledgeable than another. It's a trip to think that from some point of for someone out there, life begins at the "know". Not talking about a form of consciousness. I can't say that I've discovered any new understanding or wisdom, you see, I'm sure that I think too much about many things all the time and communicating helps me see what is actually there. So here is what I know. Man cannot know all that which is known. I learned that from King Solomon. Then from apostles and yes, I learned from Jesus, God Himself.
Bold words!...yea I know. "If you got it you got it" some like to say. haha.
Anyway, Solomon was the wisest man to ever live, but Jesus, Jesus is the wisdom of God. So I got to thinking some more right. Jesus is Emmanuel = God with us! My definite Bible believing, God fearing acceptance of this truth (no one needing to agree) won't allow me to agree with anyone else but him on Most things in life. So what am I saying? ... I'm trying to get there.
Jesus, Son of God, Son of Man, Lord, Messiah said, "“I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me." (stick with me here)
Knowledge, to know the known, that which is... (The Truth?)
Beginning - End, How-Where, What-Who, When, Why...(The Way?)
From life comes life, to know, the way to life is life?...(The Life?)
Hmmm... Life.
life begins with and ends with God, God, eternally existing, the source of life. Being the "know", possessing the "know" we obviously cannot attain. We don't even fully know ourselves. I learned this from King David.
We all yearn to know. To be known even. I believe this is what god did with creation, creating so that all existence, especially man, might "know" Him.
Now one can only wonder of what they do not know. And of what they do know, whether or not it is truth. But the beginning of knowledge and wisdom is the fear of the LORD. (reverence of, acknowledgement of, respect of, fear of God.)
I came to a point that I HAD TO confess to know nothing, al so that I might discover what is known (the know), that knowledge could be found. So in conclusion, we have not and can not attain knowledge: "the sum of what is known."
Such is a great endeavor of man that faith can only satisfy.
Jesus is the Way, the Truth, the Life.
Who shows us the Father, who sends the Spirit, who seals us.
Sealing for us ... knowledge.
Knowledge not being God, but found in God, where my soul finds rest.
From all fear unknown.
Bold words!...yea I know. "If you got it you got it" some like to say. haha.
Anyway, Solomon was the wisest man to ever live, but Jesus, Jesus is the wisdom of God. So I got to thinking some more right. Jesus is Emmanuel = God with us! My definite Bible believing, God fearing acceptance of this truth (no one needing to agree) won't allow me to agree with anyone else but him on Most things in life. So what am I saying? ... I'm trying to get there.
Jesus, Son of God, Son of Man, Lord, Messiah said, "“I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me." (stick with me here)
Knowledge, to know the known, that which is... (The Truth?)
Beginning - End, How-Where, What-Who, When, Why...(The Way?)
From life comes life, to know, the way to life is life?...(The Life?)
Hmmm... Life.
life begins with and ends with God, God, eternally existing, the source of life. Being the "know", possessing the "know" we obviously cannot attain. We don't even fully know ourselves. I learned this from King David.
We all yearn to know. To be known even. I believe this is what god did with creation, creating so that all existence, especially man, might "know" Him.
Now one can only wonder of what they do not know. And of what they do know, whether or not it is truth. But the beginning of knowledge and wisdom is the fear of the LORD. (reverence of, acknowledgement of, respect of, fear of God.)
I came to a point that I HAD TO confess to know nothing, al so that I might discover what is known (the know), that knowledge could be found. So in conclusion, we have not and can not attain knowledge: "the sum of what is known."
Such is a great endeavor of man that faith can only satisfy.
Jesus is the Way, the Truth, the Life.
Who shows us the Father, who sends the Spirit, who seals us.
Sealing for us ... knowledge.
Knowledge not being God, but found in God, where my soul finds rest.
From all fear unknown.
Sunday, March 16, 2014
The One
This can turn into a sermon, a teaching, a curriculum, a novel even. So don't do it. Especially because I'm not right now either, but I might. So cut me some slack and don't steal this one. Get it, 'this one', because I titled my post "The One". hahahahaha .......... man I crack myself up. Anyway, let me get this out. Ecclesiastes 3:11 says "He has made everything appropriate in its time. He has also set eternity in their heart, yet so that man will not find out the work which God has done from the beginning even to the end." (scroll down)
I think about relationships all day
For all that I am knowledgeable of and connected to
My relationships
Like a web that I am at the center at, I spread 360 degrees
It's straight, it's bent, it's boxed, it's flat
and all come back to me
My relationships
And something... always... is the closest... it... could possibly be
But all I want would be The One that centers these with me
I am never found alone, when even darkness finds its home, among the space where nothing roams, but lonely it can be
so when it has come down to this
The One becomes my need
In the eyes of all I see this plain as if a mirror placed in front of me is clear your face is what I see how can I see myself in ev-ree-ba-dee that I see when they're not me I only long and look for you where I see me you see my eyes they beg you please reveal yourself so that I see what lie beneath will match that hollow point which leaves me in my grief please be THE ONE!
My relationship.
Heart beating rapidly
Breathe not attached to me
Breathing won't produce peace
For this is how the soul rages
Causing the life to reach and cling
To relationship.
A web is not a road, it's oblivion
A road is not life, at the end from beginning
And this is not the way
The truth is that life is eternal .... ly
God
From my beginning
Death has been with me
"I'm looking for life", I say
but all you keep doing is mocking me
My Relationships.
I realized again you're not The One
The friend, lover, sister, brother, mother, other and EVERYTHING...
I looked again
"you, are not me."
"I'm looking for life" you say
"you, are not... me."
...
"give up" I heard
This came from not my web (lol)
I looked 360 degree and all of them still there
My relationships
"Which one of you have spoken, will you come out in the open, please move closer to this center fill this empty space with me"
Still nothing
Not one connection to my web tugging
"give up" I heard
I knew immediately. "The One"
"It's you, you are the one."
"please come and take this grief, please tell me this could be, who are you I can't see you, who are you,..."
"are you me"
Silence came to me.
then all so suddenly he said
"I AM THAT I AM"
"I AM"
" THE ONE"
....is He. not her. no thing. not me.
I think about relationships all day
For all that I am knowledgeable of and connected to
My relationships
Like a web that I am at the center at, I spread 360 degrees
It's straight, it's bent, it's boxed, it's flat
and all come back to me
My relationships
And something... always... is the closest... it... could possibly be
But all I want would be The One that centers these with me
I am never found alone, when even darkness finds its home, among the space where nothing roams, but lonely it can be
so when it has come down to this
The One becomes my need
In the eyes of all I see this plain as if a mirror placed in front of me is clear your face is what I see how can I see myself in ev-ree-ba-dee that I see when they're not me I only long and look for you where I see me you see my eyes they beg you please reveal yourself so that I see what lie beneath will match that hollow point which leaves me in my grief please be THE ONE!
My relationship.
Heart beating rapidly
Breathe not attached to me
Breathing won't produce peace
For this is how the soul rages
Causing the life to reach and cling
To relationship.
A web is not a road, it's oblivion
A road is not life, at the end from beginning
And this is not the way
The truth is that life is eternal .... ly
God
From my beginning
Death has been with me
"I'm looking for life", I say
but all you keep doing is mocking me
My Relationships.
I realized again you're not The One
The friend, lover, sister, brother, mother, other and EVERYTHING...
I looked again
"you, are not me."
"I'm looking for life" you say
"you, are not... me."
...
"give up" I heard
This came from not my web (lol)
I looked 360 degree and all of them still there
My relationships
"Which one of you have spoken, will you come out in the open, please move closer to this center fill this empty space with me"
Still nothing
Not one connection to my web tugging
"give up" I heard
I knew immediately. "The One"
"It's you, you are the one."
"please come and take this grief, please tell me this could be, who are you I can't see you, who are you,..."
"are you me"
Silence came to me.
then all so suddenly he said
"I AM THAT I AM"
"I AM"
" THE ONE"
....is He. not her. no thing. not me.
Monday, March 10, 2014
Many Skies
I saw many skies today
They stare, standing at one of them
and families gather families to this Lake
Walking's and holdings
They're coming and going
Just passing it by
Some uncontrolled volume like ripples in time, move backwards to the place where the pebble declines
The sun's blaring yellow,
It spread to a purple
Proceeding from melting of orange
Thank You God for the many skies I see
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