The Survey (Pt. 2)

So now lets talk about some of the answers that I've received, unfortunately i will not distinguish between many of the older and wiser versus the younger; but maybe you will, and in this case simply because across the board most answers related in the same ways. This part 2 will be directly about the answers, so hopefully i can keep this shorter than most of you actually want it to be. (That would just be way to much writing.)

First let me say I admire all those who answered this question with "I don't know" rather than trying to make up a good sounding answer.
i will use some answers to be a summation of corporate answers that sounded different but meant the same. simple right.... OK
the only thing is that there were 3 instructions....
1. no general answers (be specific)
2. no explanations (straight answers)
3. case sensitive (your personal answer for yourself)

Here we go.......

1. By loving me like Christ loves the church.
2. He tells me
3. Sacrifice
4. Pleased to serve me/bless me
5. Time
6. Consistent Character
7. I would be able to discern (I'd just know)
8. When I trust him
9. Physical affection
10. Perseverance with me
11. He'll need me
12. He'll want me
13. He will continuously pursue me
14. he will be bold
15. paying attention to me
16. Leave em alone (waiting until I'm ready to give an answer)
17. taking his time
18. putting me first and my cares and needs before his
19. taking time to listen and invest in my life
20. his company
21. doing the small things
22. when he studies me
23. not his actions (first proof of trustworthiness and faithfulness), then choosing me and that's it. only me*
24. wanting to spend the rest of his life with me
25. through expressions of love
    
26. he will be interested with me
    
27. willingness to sacrifice everything (everything)
28. dignity
29. he'll back up his words with actions
30. actions
31. view me in the eyes of God
32. he'll take care of me
33. having integrity in private and public
34. treats me as Christ would- spoiled
35. loving me when I'm not lovable
36. respect
37. time to get to know me, what I'm like and who I am
38. it's something he'll constantly work at
39. He will love God, won't lead me into any sin, and protect my heart and his*
40. pursuit even after he has me
41. respect with interest in my life and my family also
42. initiating time and interest
43. not passive
44. with my difficulty and manipulation and problems, he'll still persevere w/ me
45. treating me Biblical
46. Loving God more than me*
47. how much he is willing to do to have me
48. by how much pursuing Christ matters to him*
49. patience*
50. in Christ,cherishing me, building up and challenging me
51. time with me over other people
52. respecting my authority, i.e. going through my father, being dedicated to the Lord and accountable to other men*
53. through his words
54. choosing to lead, committed through faithfulness, I'd be a priority
55. wont intentionally hurt me
56. he will assure me
57. putting my relationship with the Lord above mine and his*
58. when he asks me to marry him
59. understanding who he is in Christ first and who he is suppose to be before pursuing me*
60. build himself and me spiritually, emotionally, physically and mentally*
61. willing to die for me
62. not based on image or shallowness but inner beauty
63. written encouragement
64. sharing the same passions
65. effort in communicating his love if he really loves me
66. support
67. sincerity, saying it after an extended period of time as a friend, after knowing me, then saying it genuinely
    
68. choice to even in struggle
69. I don't think there's any way to really know
    
70. when i can experience God's love through him
71. if me being happy makes him happy
72. because I'll never have to ask
73. all about me....(The Queen)
74. considerate of my time, needs, respect, honors my opinions and feelings, a relationship of mutual accommodations*
75. prays for me daily, thanks God for me, leaving no room for doubt that I'm the only one for him, anticipates, considers, seeks, supports me in all areas*
76. makes me smile inside and out
77. trying his hardest not to lose me
78. provides, protects, and devotes time*
79. actions speak louder than words
80. he is eager to introduce you to friends, family as well as meet yours
81. He gives you his Name*
    

So here are 81 answers that I've written out. some are bold w a star thing because i thought those sounded better although that does not make them the answers. all other answers 50+ are products, by-products or answers that are within the answers already given...fellas i wouldn't depend on these to get you through. Ladies i would not accept them all either.

Still the questions begs to be answered why there are so many answers and how do women come to these conclusions of what it means for them to be loved and how they know. Is there a better way? a sure way? a Biblical way?.......i asked the same question....

stay tuned.....